You have a decision to make. You can let me tell you the truth or tell you the lie. Lately, from all your circumventing I can tell you’d rather hear the lie. So here it goes. I love you and don’t ever want us to be apart. I want to make this work no matter how miserable it makes me.
Now for the truth… I never really was good at lying.
I can’t do this anymore. Our fighting has gotten out of control. I feel like you hate me and I’m starting to believe that I hate you too. It’s over between us. I am done trying to make it work. It’s pointless. You’ll never change and neither will I. I don’t care who’s fault it is. I just want us to move in different directions. I want you and I to be over. If i could I would never see you again.
Here’s the truth, my version, of why I want things to end.
You use me and abuse me. For my car, my home, money, whatever your reason it’s there staring me in the face every time I see you. You’re so mean to me. Everyday you call me some name… bitch, cunt, POS, etc. It never seems to end. I’m sick and tired of everything you do to me. You think it’s all me and it’s not. You want to be mean to me, well I’m so sick and tired of it that I am going to be twice as mean right back. I don’t understand why you are still here if you don’t want to be. I’m so confused.
Advice is much appreciated.